Jason: What I realized in writing this book was that repeatedly, people wanted to know who were these two people that were the subject of this story? The incredible thing that we had together throughout the course of our marriage was this really, really fantastic relationship. I felt like that was important to talk about. It was certainly the foundation for who these people were. It was very rewarding. What I did in starting to figure out how to structure the book was I almost treated it like a journalist would treat a nonfiction piece even though it was about my own life. I went back down into the basement, into the crawl space, and pulled out all of these things that families keep throughout the course of raising children and stuff, everything from the silly artwork in junior kindergarten to letters that we exchanged at anniversaries and things like that. One of the things I found that people are really being drawn to is this list that I found which is called Amy and Jason Rosenthal's Marriage Goals and Ideas. It became a thread throughout the book with my editor's help. That document, even though we weren’t so conscious of it, was something that we really did live by even though it was written on our honeymoon.